50 years and counting!

14 August 2010 by John, View Comments
50 years and counting!

I made it! Today I turned 50 years old! That just seems so surreal to me. I honestly thought i would have been moved on by now. Not sure why I thought that. maybe when I was younger 50 seemed so old. now I have to say…. Thanks to a bunch of dietary changes, Yoga, Reiki and my Mentor Berta’s help… I think I am growing younger!

I was driving to see Berta yesterday and my iPod was randomly shuffling through songs.  (As an aside…. I always seem most inspired by music) The universe always picks out what I need when I need it.

The first song was Bruce Springsteen “Born to Run”. Now that song just kicks ass any way ya look at it. But, as I was reflecting my upcoming 50th birthday, it kinda spoke to me. Bruce encouraged me to remember that I was born to Kick Ass! That I was born to push myself to the edge and often just a little over the edge. He reminded me that it was my position and birthright to run and not let ANYONE hold me back! Good message

Next up – and I know this is a shocker that it’s even on my iPod – Miley Cyrus “The Climb”!

Now I’m not a huge fan of teen pop, but my wife loves this one. I never really paid attention to the lyrics… yesterday I did!

Miley encouraged me to reflect on my journey. I realized that often my life has seemed like an uphill climb. Between business associates going off the deep end, family members being well… family members, health issues, etc etc… it just seems like I have been pushing hard for 50 years. And I have!

But I also looked at all of my accomplishments. I looked at all I have learned. I looked at all I had taught.

I have had an amazing Climb! I have accomplished a lot more than I  was ever expected too! I’ve had a lot of challenges but have usually hit them head on and often won… but Miley reminds that we’ll lose sometimes… and that’s OK. It’s part of the climb. Thanks a lot Miley!

The last song on my short ride was Kenny Loggins “Danger Zone”. I’ll bet you remember that as one of the hit songs from one of my favorite fluff films – “Top Gun”. This song always get’s me revving the engines! It reminded me that while I am on this climb that I have to push myself into and past the Danger Zone. I get stopped dead in my tracks sometimes by fear. And I’m starting to recognize that as a warning sign… not a stop sign! I’m starting to develop startegies to deal with the fear and get past it! It’s a really big push for me, and I have to thank Kenny Loggins for reminding me that getting past my fears is part of the equation for success!

It’s great to be 50 years old. I can’t wait to see what the next 50 brings!

Remember – Just “do you”… and remember to kick ass at doing you!

  • http://billcrowthercoaching.com Bill Crowther

    Isn’t it interesting how powerful music is in guiding our thoughts? Here you had 3 different genre’s send you powerful messages that you related to because you were open to it in your life. When we listen to the emotion behind other things, in this case for you it was music, for others it could be anything, we let our hearts be touched and in the end, connect with the intention behind the creator of that medium. I’m convinced that any artist hopes to move beyond the ears or eyes of their fans to touch hearts. Why else would they create things the way they do?

    Aside from the deep thoughts, birthdays are a great time to reflect and reevaluate your life! Hope you have a wonderful one and a powerful next year. Let your introspection take you to a place of your own creativity so that you can be, do and have more of what you want this next year. Make it a great one and Happy Birthday!

  • John

    You’re the best Bill! I agree there is a lot of emotion behind music and other artful creations…. I’m not sure I connected with exactly what the artist meant – or if it was my spirit being in the right place and state to glean something I never have, and perhaps the artist never intended anyone to “get”. That’s the beauty of art… we may all get something completely different, but it’s so important to go past the surface and open your heart to seeing, hearing and feeling more!

    I have reflected a lot on my last 50 years and also made plans for how I’d like to see the next 50 years to unfold. As you and I have discussed with you before…. My guiding lite and beacon will be happiness. It’s my only dream and wish – to be happy. I figure if I am happy it will be because I am helping others and really doing the work God placed me on this planet to do.

    When I am out of touch with that is when, fear, anger, frustration etc kick in… and I don’t need any of them!

    Thanks a lot for commenting! I love to get snippets of your wisdom! I can’t wait to see more of your art. You are a fantastic photographer Dude! Don’t let go of that!

    I love ya!
    John

  • Derek

    Hi John
    Very belated happy returns. I don’t check into this blog as often as I would like.
    I joined you in the fifty club last month. I’d sadly forgotten that we were both born in 1960. Like you I don’t see reaching any age as being a real ‘milestone’ in life. To my mind I only have my mothers word that I was actually born on the date on my birth certificate so the birthday loses all significance once I realisee that my birthdate is just ‘hearsay”.

    The important thing that I know now but didn’t for most of my life is that all that matters is living life to the full. Every second we live is precious and at the same time fleeting. Once we have experienced it it’s gone for good and is never coming back round to allow us to ‘do it better’. Good enough really is good enough. Perfection is an unobtainable goal which I have decided is unworthy of pursuit.

    Not sure if all this comes about because of my alleged age or the fact that I am now for the first time in my life parentless but what I feel happening every single day is a fog clearing which is allowing me to focus on the vista that was being hidden right in front of my eyes. This week this new clarity has allowed me to focus in one thing at a time, total focus not pretend focus where I work on something but my mind is full of distractions. I have amazed myself with how quickly I am able to note a distraction and tell it to mentally ‘go away’ and get on with what I am doing. Once the days target has been fulfilled I am then free to spend my time however I choose.

    My past fifty years was all to do with funding and filling manufactured lack. I have realised that most of what we take for granted in life is the exact opposite of the reality. At every juncture be it taxes, fines, statues, codes, penalities, licences, health, fitness, morals etc, nothing is what it appears to be.
    Most of it if not all (I am still discovering the lmits) can be safely ignored and stymied by using the word NO.
    Life really is too short to worry about things that may never ever have any impact on my life because a second spent worrying is a second of life truly wasted.

    I’ve already wasted far too much on such ludicrous matters so from this point on it’s all about understanding who I am, where I am and what I need at that moment to live my life to the full. The future is a finite period that is impossible to measure so although it behoves us all to keep an eye on it, it shouldn’t be something to fear.
    Living now is going to be my watchword for the coming seconds, minutes, hours, days, weeks, months, years, decades of however long my life continues.

  • John

    Sorry for the late reply Derek… I’m so happy that you’re finding this place in your life. And there is no right time to find it, we find it when we are prepared to find it. Period. Remember that once you figure out who you are, where you are and what you need, take action. We can often get caught up in our head and forget to get our feet involved too!

    Good for you! Keep moving!
    John

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